Hi Suz, Welcome -- I saw your comment, so thought I'd point you towards a group you might be interested in joining if you're looking for others with a similar diagnosis. It's the Women Living With Advanced Breast Cancer group, and you can find it here: http://www.bcna.org.au/group/4218. It's a private group, but you can still join -- just click on that link, and when the page loads look on the left side of the page and click on the 'request membership' link.
Also, welcome to the site! :) This is a fairly old post, so other network members may not find your comment here. If you'd like to chat more, the best thing is to either make a post in the Advanced breast cancer group blog (the one I gave the link for), or go to your own blog (look at the pink box on the right hand side of the page when you're logged in, and click on the 'My Blog' button), and make a new post. That will then show up in the All Posts page and others will see it.
Hope that helps -- if you need a hand with anything, just ask.
~Di