Hi Tammy, Yes your head must be spinning at the moment. Chris is very good with her advice of taking a support person with you - however make sure that the Oncologist addresses YOU - keeping eye contact with you. Whenever I took my hubby to my Medical Oncologist appt, I was invisible!!! (I realised later that it was his personality) Take your list of questions with you and don't leave until you feel that they have been answered properly. You will find lots to ask and it will all fit into place. My saying these days is "Just go with the flow". If you forget to ask something, you have many options available to you : do a search online here, ask the oncology nurses or if you are in a support group there are "many who have gone before you" . Good luck XLeonie