Hi janeymay, welcome to this helpful & mostly reassuring site! I too was diagnosed with tnbc June last, year have finished chemo last October with no rads as I opted for the bi-lateral mastectomy & diep flap reconstruction all @ the same time... It's all very scary to begin with... my thoughts were "like looking down the barrel of a loaded gun!" but I received a lot of good advice from the lovely ladies on this site. The best advice I can offer back to you @ the moment is listen to your body... Like if you want to cry then do so if your tired rest etc & if you want to vent some anger or ask a question then just type it out on this site & you will receive a lot of support! Good luck with your genetic tests btw mine only took 2 weeks to come back, & good luck through your next chemo! Brightest Blessings )0( Susan