Yes, welcome to the site. I live in Rockhampton and my daughters live in Brisbane. BC is such a nuisance and can be such a soul destroyer if you let it. When I see someone like yourself I immediately think of my daughers and I am so thankful that it is me with bc and not them. At my age I am over caring what others think and even though I like to stay looking nice , I understand the pressures that were on me at your age. BC will make you wiser though and you will care less about the things that are really not worth worrying about. I am pleased to read that you are supported by a loving husband and you have a lovely little one. I am sorry that the support group you attended did not "measure up" for you. Maybe there is another one you could check out. What about looking for a dragonboat club? Our group of BC survivors started up our own dragonboat club. It is such a fun and social thing to be involved in. I know that there are quite a few groups in Brisbane. Please don't feel alone as this network has so many lovely ladies on it who are only too willing to support you and each other. I wish I could offer you more information. Have you checked out the Online Directory on this site to find support groups for young women? Take as much care of yourself as you can. XLeonie