Hi @Karen1512,
so sorry to hear about your diagnosis- you must be feeling anxious and overwhelmed. It’s such a shock and you feel like a deer caught in the headlights but I promise you’ll feel more in control when your medical team have put a plan in place.You’ll most likely have chemo and possibly surgery. There are so many new drugs available now so that if one doesn’t work,they switch to another. A lady in my support has lived with bc metastasis( in lymph nodes)for 18yrs. There is always hope.Big hug xx