Golly gosh, @Chevvy - you’ve had a really rough trot, that is for sure xx I hope you’ve recovered well from your fall - that was really bad luck :(
With everything you are going thru, you are definitely not losing your mind ..... it is just going a million miles an hour, trying to compute all that is going on xx
With your melanoma, has immunotherapy been mentioned at all? There have been leaps and bounds in that area in recent years. Maybe ask about it if they haven’t mentioned it?
You are amazing to have worked all thru this - but don’t forget to look out for yourself as well xx If you get anxious or stressed, definitely chat with a Counsellor or social worker at your Cancer Centre, or chat with the helpline here, too xx
take care and all the best xx