Well Joy said it perfectly. Unless someone has walked the walk they will never understand what happens to our sole and body. It turns our lives upside down and yes we do become stronger and much more educated to say the least.
Yes doing it alone it very hard and very lonely too, despite having friends and family. Sometimes we just need that closeness and a cuddle at the end of the night that others cant share. I am just so glad i did not have to have chemo as i really dont think i could have coped on my own like you have. You ladies are both just so strong and brave and should be very proud of yourself for doing it alone. . Donna, I hope you enjoy your well deserved holiday in Hawaii, it might just be the medicine your after.
Cheers Jo xx