Introduction

Hey ElizaWelcome to BCNA and to a great group of people who are here to help you in any way shape or form.  We would very much love to support your through your travels on this rollercoaster you have found yourself on.  We are good at giving advice when asked for. We are also a great ear to listen when you have something to say and just need to get it out there.  So please use us and everything there is to do with BCNA. This is a great online blog site for you.  There is also so much info in the form of My Journey Kit and lots of other resources available.  I am not sure where I would be without it.You are between a rock and a hard place aren't you.  You just wanting surgery to get this bloody cancer out and yet the medical field are telling you otherwise.  Have you talked to hubby about how you feel and your current fears and anxiety?  Will that help?  I am sure they only have your very best of interest at heart sweety but it is a tough one for you.It is all so overwhelming getting this diagnosis and then the road ahead of you.  If I can suggest just take it one hour at a time and if you are lucky one day at a time.  Call on all the love and especially the support that you have around you to help with your precious lil one and the housework, ironing, washing etc. which are all the yukky things that get us females down at a time like this.  If worse comes to work employ a cleaner to come in and do what you can't do for a while.  Me being me would have found that very hard as I am such an independent and strong person (most of the time) but when I look back now I wish to god I had accepted help or seeked help as I needed it.We are all thinking of you one this site and willing you to be as well as possible and hoping you have a kind ride along the way.Come back for a chat, vent, advice or whatever any time.Lots of love always, Mich xoxo