I am So sorry to see you joining us here @livingthedream xx Your diagnosis will have been a real shock to you - but the good news is that they have so many more options available now to help prevent mets progression (specially with immunotherapy.)
Out of interest - Is it the ILC that has returned, or is it a new one?
A good friend had mets return in her hip 5 years ago (18 years after her initial diagnosis) & she was able to have a hip replacement & is now out living a wonderful life in the gemfields of Qld, looking for emeralds & sapphires, to make into jewellery .... and she goes hunting for opals now too!! She makes me tired, just watching her travels - but she is having a great time xx
Feel free to check out this post, that has a lot of info on the forum & some topics that may interest you ....
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/23477/a-big-welcome-to-all-new-online-network-members#latestWe have lots of 'off topic' threads, about our furkids, art & craft, our gardens .... jump onto any of them to check them out & add your own pics & story xx
Whack up any questions that you like & we'll do our best to give you an honest answer xx
take care & all the best with your ongoing appointments xx