onemargie
8 years agoMember
Im Outta Here
Hi all So Ive decided to take a break from the BCNA forum. It has been bought to my attention from one of the moderators that I have offended some people with my language and certain posts. "It...
I've always been drawn to people who are cheerfully themselves. These individuals frequently use coarse language but they are genuine and honest, and rarely devious, jealous or destructive. Hiding behind the pretense of being polite and well mannered does not make you a better person, particularly if you use this pretense as a way of manipulating others into complying with your view of the way the world should be. That is really unpleasant behavior.
I can understand wanting to take a break--sooner or later it is time to stop identifying as a 'cancer person' and hang out with people who are leading normal lives instead of identifying with those trying to survive one of the most trying situations we are likely to face in our lives. .
I'm really pissed off that you've let them get you down @onemargie . It's a great shame to lose your blunt and entertaining presence and I'm hoping you simply won't be able to help yourself next time you see someone struggling who needs your support. Marg xxx