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cranky_granny's avatar
5 years ago

I think, I hope I have learnt my lesson. NO is not a mean word

Its been quite some time since posting anything.
I do get on and have a quick browse for inspiration. And insight into reminding that I’m not alone and that What’s happening etc someone else has something similar regarding my Life since BC, 4+ long years 
Back to my TITLE. 
I was doing alright saying no for a time but back to my old habits, someone asks and I say yes before realising what the impact on me will be. 
between work and my regular babysitter (grandkids) duties which I love doing.
I have over committed myself again and have left myself so tired after the other requests I’ve said yes to,
I waste one of my days off in bed after lunch and not able to get up till it’s time to get ready for work. 
As I’m  having my 6 month Oncologist check up next week along with the usual tests before that. I said you are going to have to make other arrangements as I can’t fit it. Organise something else, quickly answered oh I’ll just go stay at ?! Place. Thats when I realised was being used by an 18 year old lazy brat that played on my generosity and sympathy. 

 I’m determined to get my life back. 
Regular walks 
Get Back into my hobbies
visiting my friends and family again
back to healthy eating at regular times.
Wish me luck getting it all to happen 

12 Replies

  • @cranky_granny Old habits are hard to keep broken. I think in some ways it is comforting to us to resort to the way things used to be. I must have been quite strong in my 'no' during BC as people only ask me now if they really need me.
  • Nice to hear from you @cranky_granny

    Saying No it's not always easy to family and friends but hopefully saying No now will make you feel liberated.  It's also a reminder the toll diagnosis and treatment has had.......fatigue, a gentle reminder to look after you!!

    Best wishes in juggling work and home 

    Take care