@Pip47 I do understand your frustration, but ultimately I agree with the others and hope she see's sense sooner than later. I go by the old adage "oil the gate that squeaks" It does still amaze me in this day and age when we have the choice of being able to be so proactive people still don't choose to do it. I concentrate more now on letting everyone I know that if they do have a mammogram to ask the radiographer if they have dense breasts and if the answer if yes then I tell them to go and get an ultrasound. ( re previous threads that WA is the only state in Australia who is proactive about this as well as promoting people over 40 to get mammograms. I was simply unaware how many women in their 40's get diagnosed with this bloody disease ) Good luck xox