There's a lot said already that makes a lot of sense.
By the sound of it your relationship is in its infancy.
Your gut instinct will or maybe will determine what's going on.
At present you need to concentrate on yourself and what's happening medically.
Do you have Mum or just a good friend who may join you at appointments?
Surf the BCNA website as there's lots of information to absorb including for families, friends and workplace et cetera
Take a deep breath and concentrate on your own well being so you are not emotionally distracted when you go for results
Take care