Hi Amy,
Sorry to hear of your diagnosis but on the upside you are now apart of the most caring and supportive network of ladies you could ever dream about. I have made some beautiful friendships through breast cancer that are life long bonds now.
I had bilateral mastectomies with immediate reconstruction using tissue expanders and silicone implants. I did not have radiation though.
I have had my expanders exchanged for implants and am now waiting for a nipple reconstruction.
Have you contacted Zonta International and been sent your free comfort cushion yet?? If not call them as they send you a cushion to put under your arm after surgery and it really is a blessing for your pain.
If you have any questions regarding the tissue expanders please ask. I donot want to overload you with everything i have to say on them now!! I know though that you will be happy with the end result if its anything like mine has turned out.
One tip i learnt through experience though, after your surgery make sure you do the exercises that the physio sets you. It may hurt and feel stupid exercising your arms after surgery but it is very important.
What hospital will your opperation be in? I wish you all the best. Danielle xx