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Keeping_positiv
4 years agoMember
I didn't have a defining aha moment either, but rather a series of realizations I had to change tracks, even after my active treatment, I still had to keep reminding myself not to go back to life in the fast lane. I was so exhausted with my workplace commitments and In many ways the diagnosis of cancer was a relief! It forced me to take a step back and give myself time to look after me.
I actually took on a volunteer job mid this year, but I have just resigned. I had committed to a certain day of the week, and was asked a number of times to change to another day if another volunteer was sick. I obliged, twice, but then I said NO. It was just becoming a reminder of what I went through when I was in paid work.
So, sometimes I still get reminders of what I don't want to go through again, and that little light goes off to remind me I don't need to answer to a boss.
When people ask me what I do for a living, I simply say I am retired and I please myself what I do. :) It's a great feeling. :)
I actually took on a volunteer job mid this year, but I have just resigned. I had committed to a certain day of the week, and was asked a number of times to change to another day if another volunteer was sick. I obliged, twice, but then I said NO. It was just becoming a reminder of what I went through when I was in paid work.
So, sometimes I still get reminders of what I don't want to go through again, and that little light goes off to remind me I don't need to answer to a boss.
When people ask me what I do for a living, I simply say I am retired and I please myself what I do. :) It's a great feeling. :)