Hi @ilovewhenitrains. Just to share my experience, I was diagnosed Triple Positive in Nov 21 which resulted in a mastectomy of my right breast, all happened very quickly. I have just finished 12 weeks of Taxol and continue Herceptin infusions every three weeks. I have listened to Charlotte Tottmans podcasts, more than once and I have found them very supportive and informative, I actually think without having listened to them I wouldn't be in the head space I am currently in. I have been to see my Reconstructive Surgeon twice, he has set out a 4 stage plan for me to digest at my own pace and for when I'm ready and may even go back and discuss again. So I guess what I'm trying to offer as advice from my experience and what has helped me, is using the tools on this site, talking to your doctors, reading other peoples stories and advice. Go with your gut feelings, ask those questions that you feel too reluctant to ask Doctors, nurses, anyone as it can be intimidating at times, but just do it and take control, its your body and your life and it starts to build a new sense of confidence you didn't know you had. I hope this helps in some way. Take care.