Hi ladies, I don't comment very much, because honestly some of the replies are just so good I often feel I can't add anymore. And I always find even after 2 years I can learn so much from the comments...
Thank you all for your suggestions I appreciate all your help. So I will check out our local support groups and I like the idea of 50/50 split. Such a lovely posts Kath and Soldiercrab.....thank you both.