Breaking up with your oncologist

I am so over seeing a different oncologist each time, but that is what you usually get through the public system, and it is so hard to build up a rapport, and getting different advise and perspectives does not provide me with much confidence.  If I could have gone private I would go back and do it much differently.  Like some say here the relationship with your oncologist is an important one so choose carefully and consider private if able, although I haven't completely lost faith in the oncologists I see, just that I don't feel fully listened to, nor do they know me well, it feels more like I am a number on their long list they need to get through for the day.  Bless them though, because we do need oncologists that are not just interested in their private practices.