I recently had the flu also. Just a slight cough now, but I was taking panadol 4 hourly, day and night for a few days and resting in bed ++.
Glad I am feeling better. The spring weather here in Northern Tasmania is changeable ..four seasons in one day.
Traditionally.. we have strong often southerly winds at this time of year. We have had a few fronts passing also. Still the rhododenrons, camellias, daffordils, hyacinths, forsythe, and blossoms are appearing now, and the days are lengthening, which is nice. I forgot daphne.. I love the smell of daphne after winter, even though it does not last for long!
Yes, you can say NO,, and not feel guilty!.. best wishes, Kathy.