Thank you for your selflessness Annie! But you can be angry too! Cancer is crap! As I had multifocal cancer-two types there is always the possiblity of having to deal with reoccurance especially as one type has around 15% chance in other side. As you have experienced there is a need to be optomistic yet realistic when it comes to cancer.
Thank you for your concern. It IS a big op-I am only beginning to realise that! And I have been overdoing it cooking washing a little so are really sore now. It's my right side and I'm right handed which is tiring.
Hope you are resting wellx