Gosh @Elvenwishes - that seems an awful long wait for your rads!! Do you have a Breast Care Nurse? Maybe get them to intercede on your behalf, as it can be quite confronting & emotional to go in to bat for yourself! :(
Are you coping OK in yourself? If not, ask for a referral to see a psychologist or someone you can talk it thru .... they can give you tips on coping mechanisms ..... just keeping really busy seems to work for me!
How did your elderly Mum cope, once you did tell her? Is she OK?
Sending big hugs xx take care xx
