All the best for your surgery, @Pip47 - I was amazed at how 'easy' it was for me, given how scared I was going into it! They gave me a whole BOX of tissues as I was being admitted! LOL
The waiting from diagnosis to surgery really is the pits - just try & keep as busy as you can, doing things you love doing to keep your mind busy! Once you've had your surgery & got your pathology results, you'll have a much clearer idea of your treatment plan.
Mine was invasive lobular (1/18) & I was lucky to avoid chemo, then I had 4 weeks of radiation & now on hormone tablets. I arranged a holiday to Norfolk Island a couple of weeks after rads, as a 'Pick Me Up'!
Where abouts are you - State/town - you can add it to your profile so it shows - then others living nearby may be able to recommend different facilities available to you. ;)
Whack up any questions you may have - we've all been there, so someone will will give you a 'straight up' answer!
Most of us have found the Forum invaluable for both support and information xxx