Hi marnz, you are normal for you! You are definitely important to have people worry about you. Don't compare your experience with others it is yours. It is a crappy time to have a diagnosis ( it is 10 years ago at this time for me) and all diagnosis of cancer are horrid. You need to have a good health care team looking after you. Do have you a good gp? Or is there a breast care nurse you can talk too? Depending on where you live ... Take care be happy be sad be cross but enjoy each day for what it is. Looks like you have a great family hugs jo