Hi Bon20 , I'm so sorry to hear about your recent diagnosis and the anxiety you're feeling around surgery. It is completely understandable that your main concern is how this will impact your family. It can be helpful to reach out to a supportive lived experience community for advice and making informed decisions about your personalised healthcare plan. As arpie mentioned you will find lived experience community support in the Choosing breast reconstruction (forum) private group where you can find real images of DIEP reconstrutions to assist with feeling more informed on your upcoming surgery.
You may also find the following information about breast reconstruction surgery helpful to discuss with your healthcare team, and make a plan that feels best for you.
Questions to ask a surgeon about breast reconstruction
Your hospital stay for breast cancer surgery
Tips to be more comfortable after surgery
Recovery after breast reconstruction
In the meantime if you just want to have a chat about any of your thoughts feel free to call our Helpline on 1800 500 258 - we are here to support you!