Welcome to this site. You are definately in "good hands". The information and support that these three above ladies have given you is invaluable. These three Lovelies make me feel so humble because they are so special and they will always make you feel special. As Shirl suggests, we will be able to help you further in supporting your mum when we know more details. We all are on the same journey - but with differences. There will always be someone who has had the same type of bc as your mum or someone who has had the same issues. We will always be able to "be there" for you and your mum. My story is very similar to Tonya's (we are BC twins!!!). The types of issues we need to know are what type of bc has your mum been diagnosed with? Does your mum have a new primary? What location you are living in so that we can help you secure some support services for you and your mum? How old you are? I know that might sound a bit intrusive but it will help us to help you more. Please ask us lots of questions as we will always try and obtain an answer for you or send you in the right direction. I am so pleased that you are such a supportive person for your mum. Loads of love coming your way XLeonie