Omg i have had so many stupid things said me such as the ones below. I actually wrote them down because I couldn't believe people say these things.
1. "Are you better yet, get on with it!" (said after round 2 of chemo 10 rounds of chemo to go, plus radium)
2. "Can't wait to see your bald head" " ( said to me when diagnosed)
3. " Show us your head" ( said after I shaved it and to someone I had explained the sensitivity of the hair loss)
4. "You will do something great like write a book after this " ( all I want is to live a long life in peace and happiness)
5. My friend said " I have head around breast cancer and I think you are getting your head around it too".
6. "I have seen lots of bald and shaved heads so it's ok to show me" (no! It isn't about what you are comfortable with, it's about me a new what I want).
7. " Like I said, eat, rest, sleep, walk, sleep, rest eat"
8. " You will need to get you acceptance at the right time" (inferring death and me accepting it. This was said when a friend visited me after I told them of my diagnosis - I had advised them the positive outcome expected from treatment but they went to the worse case)
9. "You really can't tell the difference in your boobs, I know because I have been looking and I can't tell. Maybe it is your bra."
10. " I take away your shit and bring it into me because I can take it because I am stronger than you, then i will send back instead golden healing light".