The Husband/ Carer!

I had the absolute worst day ever yesterday.  I rang my health insurance company to find Id been mis-informed about how much my wig will be covered the first time around.  I was devasted and cried openly when the 2nd person from the company said, no that was right, you only get $180 to spend on the wig and not the $500 the first person said.  She was abrupt and insinuated that I had misheard the woman originally.  I cried at her "But I rang before I bought the wig and asked her twice to  make sure I didnt over spend!"   I spent the rest of the day in tears, telling myself I hate my life, and the afternoon was wasted lying on my bed.  I was still sulking at 5pm and my parents couldnt work out what was wrong as we had discussed the drama earlier.  So I finally started telling them what Id been thinking all day and cried again, Mum put her arm around me,  and the 3 of us talked it through.  When my husband came through the door at 6.30pm he took one look and asked "Whats wrong?" as Ive been very good so far with emotions, and after I told him he said with great concern "You cant let something get to you its not good for your health and your immune system.  You need to try to stay calm, relaxed and not worry.  You are going through so much, Im here, you will be ok, I will take care of you!"  So every step of this preparation time for my husband, he is stepping up to the plate, just as he said he would.  I truly believe that with the changing of our roles, it will create a better situation for us at the end.  After all, if you leave something for long enough unresolved, something will usually evolve to change it for you.  I have always believed that our rug has seen a lot of stuff swept under it, and at last, (ironically my husband just bought us a new floor rug for the lounge room), our pile is being removed!  There is a light at every tunnel!  I know he loves me and he will work it out!  Love Bel