Hi Jess,
I am a 59yr old Mom with 2 sons and a 30yr old daughter who was pregnant (with complications) when I was diagnosed so I decided not to tell her. To cut a long story short I ended up telling her before my surgery and she did not go into premature labour and was angry for me not wanting to tell her. Although she is in Adelaide she has been a great support with encouragement, prayers, etc. You are doing a wonderful job, don't be afraid to live your life as in work and having fun, your Mom wants you to be happy.
I had to chuckle at your Mum's reaction to losing her taste buds. For me that was "the pits" as they say. My hubby and I laughed about it also and I even suggested that I just eat paper instead of the crispy bread roll I was craving He He He :)
Regarding people's reactions be gentle with them. Some just don't know what to say or do so they retreat; I found taking the first step sometimes re-established communication with these people.
Have you got a "My Journey" kit for your Mum yet? If not, send away for one for her see details on the Home page. In it, I think, is a CD made especially for the husband/partner ~ my husband found it really good. Ann
