Hi Adean,
Thanks for your lovely message. I am learning that support is the main thing that's important. My Mum is married too, but not really sure how he's dealing. I am currently living with them... he doesn't say too much and is trying to be 'business as usual' which is frustrating for me as much as it is for my Mum, I'm sure.
I wrote that entry on october 1, and since then we have just finished the second round of chemo. My Mum is a tough nut, but its really knocking her about... I shaved her head last tuesday night (think it was more traumatic for me than it was for her) and actually she looks a lot cooler than we expected!
I am glad you have such lovely caring daughters -- the more support around the easier I bet it makes things for you. Personally, I cannot begin to imagine what it must feel like inside -- some days for me are a lot harder than others and I'm not the one its actually happening to.
:) I wish you a very happy and quick recovery from everything that you are going thru! x
