Hi Antarctichorse, it must be so hard to be separated from your wife at this difficult time.But you are doing all you can and your daily calls would be such a support to your wife.When faced with bc treatments,we women tend to go into battle mode.It's like we have to stay strong to get through it all and then we might fall in heap further down the track.That's when your wife will need lots of hugs and reassurance that you still think she is beautiful.Hopefully, you'll be home by then There is a brochure you could download from this network called"I wish I could fix it"-written for partners.It maybe helpful to read.Blog back here anytime for support.Tonya
