Hi AntarticHorse,
Welcome, you're in exactly the right place. That must be so difficult being so far away from her at a time like this, I feel for you. It sounds like you are doing the right things. You could look at it from the perspective that the doctors have done all the years of training to fix her medically, your role is to be the best support that she could have and from the sounds of things you are doing a great job. I would imagine that talking to you would be a little holiday away from all the negative aspects of cancer. A mini holiday.
Its not good that your wife has cancer, but she is a very lucky lady to have someone like you caring about her.
cheers
Mira
