Vinn2016
9 years agoMember
relationships
ok, I have just gotten off the phone from my husband who took carers leave today to come pick me up from hospital (stayed in over the weeked due to high temperature from last round of chemo) but I ha...
Hi Vinn2016. I'm sorry that you're having a rough time with your husband.
I'm concerned about what I'm hearing regarding his behaviour. It's normal for a partner to struggle with knowing how to support someone with breast cancer. We have a booklet on this topic that you can order or download. But that's no excuse for forcing you to go out, insulting you, or making you feel humiliated. As the others have said, this is abusive behaviour and it's not ok.
I encourage you to seek support from family and friends as well as professional help. You can talk to your doctor. You can also contact Relationships Australia via the web or call them at 1300 367 277. For crisis support, you can call LifeLine on 13 11 44.
For your husband, MensLine Australia is a professional telephone and online support and information service that is available 24/7 at 1300 78 99 78.
And if you find yourself in immediate danger, please call 000.