And be prepared she might want heaps of hugs or she might not want any she might have good days and bad days and some days you might need to sit with her all day other days she might want some space. It can be very overwhelming especially when other fsmily or friends find out and want to call all the time. Tell her to take the calls if she wants and if she doesn't feel like it that's ok too. And be prepared that some people don't know what to say and say all the cliche shit and that might piss her off or upset her too. But she doesn't need any negatitvity around her just positivity energy love and support from you and real advice. Try not to google anything either as everyone's treatment if she needs it is different and she will need to listen to her surgeon and oncologist for that. Hope this helps. Margie❤️