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melissamorticia's avatar
12 years ago

out loud

Ive been reading everyones blogs and laughed and cried over everyones experiences with BC , chemo, radiation, baldness, nausea etc. As I am moments away from that reality I am pleased there is so many other women to share it with and get advice and support from. :)

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  • Dont know your whole diagnosis etc; but im pleased with the decision to have lumpdectomy-and really mascetomy wasnt offered or discussed.  The fear issue with diagnosis will probably get better with time and i accept when it does come up again as part of the process.  I dont see my breasts as 'ticking time bombs' which would make me want to have drastic surgery but rather feel quite protective of them --ive always liked my body and now im pleased that minimal intervention is meaning, for me, that within 6 months im now just on medication and ive worked, and mainly functioned almost as usual through out this time.  Be wary of messages about 'best treatment' being mascetomies and chemotherapy or how important it is to do 'everything'--of course this might be true for some; but no blanket approach for all breast cancers! 

  • Thanks Hazel, we are our own worst enemies at times over thinking our choices even though we know we have made the right ones at this time. The 3 week wait for the surgery is the biggest issue. too much time to think about it. Merry Xmas