Hi Rose - check out home help with your local Council.
Little things like if you strip your bed on the morning they are due and get the sheets in the wash and fresh ones on the edge of the bed - they can remake the bed and hang out the wet washing. Depending on where you are at with recovery hanging wet washing can be a no no!
Do you have a community Health in your area - they will soon find drivers for appointments et cetera and give you contacts for other domestic duties that you can't manage in the early days
Take care