After a long teary talk with my onc nurses and onc dr on Thursday, they have all said to ignore hubby, focus on me and getting well and rely on the support that I do have. Those issues were there before so they will wait until after. See if you can get some counselling to help deal with your anger and distress now and focus on what you need to do to get well. Bc magnifies everything else at the moment for me so now is no time to make decisions on relationships and other issues that haven't been dealt with previously. Make sure you make time to be kind to yourself and do things you enjoy. Hang in there. Xoxoxo