I am thinking of you too Shat.Chemo is hard enough without an added burden such as this.I think like summer says,don't give yourself any added stress by worrying about what he is doing OR not doing.Instead,lean on the help that you do have,hug your kids lots,and when this is all over,make some good choices for,yourself.You will feel better then,and your mind will be a lot clearer.Do you live in a big town where there may be a face to face group you could join? I wish you lived near me,I would love to help.:) Sending you a big cyber hug.xox Cheers Robyn