Diannes48
11 years agoMember
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When i was first diagnosed in March 13 i felt that i was walking around in a daze, there was so many appointments and fast paced - go here, go there, and so on, i struggled to keep up and my mind fel...
Hello Shat
I am so upset to hear of your issues. I have been thinking of you but simply don't know what to say to help you at this time.
As you said, the drinking problem is not a new thing - but he may be drinking more to block it all out. Men really are wimps when they see their partners ill and are not sure of the outcome.
I think for now you have to rely on your Mum and Sister (bless them) and make yourself the priority.
When this is sorted you can begin to look seriously at the other issue. Perhaps someone could contact the group from AA who support families ? They may just be able to give you some advice to help you get through for the moment. Does he have a mate who could assist you ?
As Dr Phil says, he has to admit he has a problem first.
I know all Network members will be thinking of you and praying to whichever God or higher being to give you strength. Love to your children as well.
Summer