Diannes48
11 years agoMember
MY Hero
When i was first diagnosed in March 13 i felt that i was walking around in a daze, there was so many appointments and fast paced - go here, go there, and so on, i struggled to keep up and my mind fel...
I like to think my partner is supportive but it really takes more than doing a bit of exra housework. He has a drinking problem and refuses to do anything feeling within his rights because 'he has to cope with this too'. I have struggled with his excessive drinking for years but going through chemo I cant cope. When I am supposed to be recovering I have to deal with all my anger and make sure my kids are ok because he is too drunk to do so. All of lifes struggles are still there to deal with and I wish I had sorted it out long ago. I guess if me going through BC is not enough for him to make changes, nothing will be. The question that remains is what to do.?
On a good note, I too have a supportive family, (mum and sister) to be thankful for.