gorgeous girl just doing this is doing something for mum,I know its scary but as Tonya said we will be strong for our beautifulchildren and we probably cried in private. Just a hug makes a difference my youngest made me a picture of her and i with the pink ribbon tying us together and i took that everywhere for every teatment, that was great. And ask mum questions im sure she wants you to , and even ilike my girls did go to an appointment with mum, if its ok. Yes we do somehow get through it. And blog here if your scared thats what we are here for.Love Adean