Men Who Care

I just did that in a txt, but she is not replying, I think I have lost her for good, I know what she must be going through, but it is the not wanting to be with me that is hurting, she keeps making excusses not to come and see me and for reasons I can not go into here, It is hard for me to go to her, it makes a lot of sence for  her to come here, even if it is just for the day. I am trying to understand this, but I am having trouble, I am meeting with iclay on Friday for coffee, I hope that will help me to understand. Micky

Hey Micky ,

All you can do now ,and its easy for me to say, is let her know your still here for her and that you are willing to go on this journey with her no matter what comes.

Scotty .....

Thanks Scotty, I just wish we could have some type of conversation. Micky

Thanks Di, I am meeting with iclay on Friday so I hope that will help me. Micky

Hey Micky.

When my girlfirend was diagnoised , we had a talk one night and she told me she would understand If i wanted to walk away. It blew me away that she would even think that, but it was her way of dealing with her cancer and not wanting me to get hurt.

Hang in there , its a rough journey for everyone including partners.

Cheers Scotty.....

Hi Micky, so sorry to hear you're having problems, but I'm glad you've found the group.  Please jump in and post or comment any time. Youre very welcome to start a new post if there's something you need or want to get off your chest. The group is just new and everyone is still getting to know each other, so, welcome!

~Di

Thanks Clay, will do. Micky

Thanks Clay, will do. Micky

Hi again Micky,My mob is 0432956173 give me a txt and we can arrange a time to have a coffee somewhere..Clay

Hi iclay,

It is to late, as I write this the relationship has ened, I am devestated and do not know what to do, she keeps talking about her pain all the time and will not talk to me about my feelings and when I try to she just keeps telling me that this is not about me, I know that it is not me going through what she is, but I need to talk to her too, 16 years ago she had breast cancer, I did not know her then and before she found out about this cancer from the time we met she always complained about the pain from having that lump removed, but with all this pain she is driving her car and shopping, but tells me she can not come and see me because of the pain. If we never get back together I need someone to talk to, because I think it is my fault and I could have done things differant, I am just a mess right now. Micky

PS. I do live in Brisbane