Forum Discussion
Men Who Care
Hi guys, my name is Clayton and I too have been and will always be a breast cancer carer and supporter.I lost my partner in Jan this year and like the rest of you found that there is no such support ...
Garry, I have had dreams of Andrea since she passed, but not very often. In my case I lost Andrea very quickly and didn't get a chance to say all that needed to be said. I was there to hold her hand as she passed which means the world to me. I can't imagine how it is for you but I can appreciate how it must feel, given my own experiences. Each day has its own challenges and you never know what will trigger a really strong memory, just allow yourself to grieve, acknowledge yourself and your loss. The next step for me is choosing how I am going to make meaning of what I have been given and how I choose to contribute to others. I'm not saying you have to do it, I am simply saying that it brings me comfort.
Simon