I am so sorry your hubby made those insensitive remarks ... and I hope that he has apologised to you for them. :(
There ain’t none of us that are picture perfect (even him, as you mention!). Maybe he needs to strip off and take a good look at himself in the mirror - and you can also take notes LOL ....
Our battle scars are evidence that we are still here - and that we are tough!
Do what is right for YOU ... if that means shooting thru on your own (or with a ‘bestie’) for a while to ‘rejuvenate’ ... just do it!! And don’t load up the fridge with cooked dinners beforehand ... let the family work that out themselves!! ;)
Maybe consider joining a couple of groups (be it walking, garden, reading .... anything that you enjoy doing) so you have more ‘you time’ and get out of the house more too.
Whereabouts are you (you can add your general area to your ‘profile’.) You May be able to meet up with local BCNA members for chats and support (covid willing.)
We are all feeling for you so much .... so lean on us when you need that extra bit of support xxx. Take care xx
