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husband not coping with my physical appearance since failed reconstruction
Hi I had a mastectomy and immediate reconstruction on breast that was prev radiated - I was aware of risk might fail and unfortuantely that has happened. 'I am left with a mound with nipple and v c...
Oh I agree wholeheartedly with @sister!
The most important part of healing is acceptance.
His comments sound very shallow and all about him! Perhaps he was having a bad day but hey he needs to be pointed in the direction of a Psychologist so he can understand that his commentary, flippant or not, is hurtful and he too needs acceptance.
Look after yourself, physically and emotionally. Simple things like sitting out on the verandah with a cup of tea and taking in nature or a walk in the park to clear your head all help
As mentioned many a time this really is a shit fest at times and it certainly helps if support is there from your nearest and dearest.
The forum is a great place for venting and understanding
Best wishes and take care
The most important part of healing is acceptance.
His comments sound very shallow and all about him! Perhaps he was having a bad day but hey he needs to be pointed in the direction of a Psychologist so he can understand that his commentary, flippant or not, is hurtful and he too needs acceptance.
Look after yourself, physically and emotionally. Simple things like sitting out on the verandah with a cup of tea and taking in nature or a walk in the park to clear your head all help
As mentioned many a time this really is a shit fest at times and it certainly helps if support is there from your nearest and dearest.
The forum is a great place for venting and understanding
Best wishes and take care