That’s great @dodg113, I really hope he goes to the psychologist with you. It’s actually quite necessary. This is a VERY tough road for everyone, and quite challenging and confronting too. Him being mean like that is most probably because of other underlying issues, but he obviously needs to get them sorted. For both your sakes, because continuing with that kind of behaviour in any relationship is not going to benefit anyone. Life is hard enough as it is. You are partners. As @Zoffiel said, let’s hope he really is one of the good ones and realises you are still you, that people are prone to changing but we should continue to love each other. And that is could happen to literally anyone. Also, he needs to be aesthetically perfect to complain about you 🤔.
I know it’s probably hard having so many of us ‘attack’ your hubby, especially because you didn’t expect this from him. It’s hard to deal with the fact our partner seems to be turning against us, on top of everything else. But it’s not about judging him, and others. We’re all a little lost and scared sometimes, and act out of character. It’s about us offering support to you that sounds like you really need right now, and hoping he gets the support he obviously needs too. Good luck to you both, I hope the outcome is for everyone’s highest good 🤞♥️
