wow - thank you so much everyone - some well needed support.!
my husband is really supportive - this has been a loong journey for both of us - started 6 yrs ago w 1st breast ca and a multitude of bizarre life threatening events unrelated to bc ...
it was v unlike him to respond like he did and prob good that he could vent a bit but guess thats why I was so taken back and upset.
He just really wants me back like I was but thats not going to happen and he is only coming to that realisation now...
In a weird way I find when look at failed recon area all it says to me is YEAH no 3rd BC!!!.
Will get booklet for him and am going to see if he will come w me to my psychologist which he has said will do previously...
love and hugs to everyone - thank you so much!
