RochelleAnne
12 years agoMember
Goodbye, Mum
It's over. My beautiful Mum died on 14 December last year and I still can't believe I'm writing that... that it happened.
Life without her still seems incomprehensible!
She was in a lot of pain a...
Life, isnt it so unexpected? For some reason I just never imagined life to be as tough as it has been, and always back up that comment with, "Its not what goes wrong in life, its how I handle it!". I still have so many people I love on the planet and out there, living, so I am truly grateful for that. No words can ever soothe the grief of losing a parent, and I am yet to be there, my Mum had Breast Cancer at 55 and she just turned 75!
Last year, just after I finished my treatment for BC, my husbands best friend died, and he was only 42 and fit, and he lost some one who was as important in his life as I. It is so random, and without reason, but we all truly can identify with the emotion of saying good bye forever, to the person some of us are the most closest to of all, their mother.
I read you message and I know that you too have been lucky and had a wonderful time with you Mum, and those memories will stay for all time. Only time will help you to pick up the pieces, and adjust. Take care. XX Bel