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Norts, this is such upsetting news!! You are going through so much already, you have a 5 year old AND he is turning his back on you when you need him most? Yuk!

I agree with Tonya, he might need to get some help or counselling with you to discuss things further.. but you and your son are most of important of all! You guys aren't alone, there is the network here and there is also plenty of local support groups.

I hope your family is nearby so you can ask them to help you deal with it... Whatever the case, please don't think you're alone, and it IS okay to reach out and ask people for help!As for 'wanting you out'... why should YOU go? You're just as fine to be there as he is, perhaps it's time for him to go instead.

And definitely, spill the beans on here all you like when you need to, there are so many wonderful supportive people who have been through the very same thing as you.

Please keep us posted, and wow - I truly hope your husband sorts out whatever it is going on there, he should be there for you most definitely! Keep your chin up, your spirits high and get ready to power on through this however you can :) You have more strength in there than you probably know.

*HUG* :)