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I was so sorry to read your blog.We are so reliant on our partners/husbands when we go through these difficult bc treatments.Some men rise to the occasion and others want to run.There are a few ladies on this network whose partners did the latter.My husband was my rock but then we've been together for 33 years and still love each other.If you were having problems before bc then it can sometimes be the last straw,so to speak.If his behaviour is out of character and out of the blue then maybe he is depressed and needs counselling.In any case,you and your son need to be safe and need family support-your mum,a brother,sister or good friend?Could you talk to them -perhaps you could stay with them?You should be able to see a psychologist or a social worker at the hospital where you had chemo.They will help you work through this situation-don't try and face all this on your own.You have been through alot,both physically and emotionally and it will take awhile to get your strength back.It's not uncommon to feel depressed after breast cancer so please talk to your doctor.Blog back here for support or to vent your feelings-I think it helps.

                               Tonya xx