Reconstruction

Thank you all for your replies. Your input and advice has made me feel much better about all this. This is such a tough journey we are all on. I went and got fitted for a surgical bra from the lady I always go to and got more input and advice and satisfaction than I have gotten from the doctors. She has told me it looks pretty standard and not to judge for 3 months as you all have said. She also told me it would take a year. She gave me a special bra to wear to bring it over to the middle. Its is excellent and I feel even at this early stage it is making a difference. My breast is a full cup size smaller but she said they are mostly smaller than the other breast and I should have been told that. I am going to review it in 3 months and if I am still unhappy I am going to take you ladies advice and see about getting it done again. What is the tram flap?  Is that the one where they take from your back?  I will go for that option if I am not happy in 3 months.  Can you elect to go back and have it fixed or do you get one shot at this and I have had my chance? I dont know how this works. Can I ask to have it done again? I hope so. I may not want to but I would like to know my options.

Keep on keeping on ladies and thank you again for your input. I find this site such a valuable resource and a real emotional support. Love to you all.